and authorized-card charges.
I excluded birthday presents, Christmas gifts, vacations I’d voluntarily funded, and anything I couldn’t verify.
At 1:48 a.m., I calculated the sum.
$79,846.
I stared, then laughed.
There was nothing amusing about it.
My mind simply couldn’t process the figure.
I recalculated.
$79,846.
After reviewing the dates, I discovered two missing statements.
The total increased.
$82,317.
I remained motionless in the hotel chair.
For years, I’d skipped weekend visits to my parents in Tennessee because “money was tight.” Parentresources
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