those who are dismissive or rude often reveal arrogance or a lack of moral depth.
2. How a person handles frustration
A person’s reaction when things go wrong—when they face delays, failure, or unexpected challenges—is incredibly telling. Do they lash out, blame others, or lose their temper? Or do they stay calm, take responsibility, and show resilience? These moments test emotional maturity, humility, and self-control. As Jung noted, character is not revealed in comfort, but in crisis.
Other Ways to Understand Someone Deeply:
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Beyond these two