Am I alone because I’m at peace with myself or because I’m afraid?

Are my standards realistic or am I striving for perfection?

Am I protecting myself or avoiding vulnerability?

If there are wounds from the past, working on them can change everything. Therapy, reading, reflection, self-knowledge.

It’s not about lowering your standards.

It’s about opening yourself up intelligently.

Trust gradually.

Observe.

Set clear boundaries.

Allow for human imperfections.

Tips and recommendations

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Evaluate your standards with balance. Maintain the essentials (values, integrity, depth), but be flexible